I don't know if these notes from my baby shower were supposed to be kept 'private' but some of them are seriously TOO GOOD not to share. I'll leave names out of each piece of advice, but as I was reading these to Josh last night I went from laughing hysterically at one card to my heart melting over the next one.
Within these cards lies some of the best advice I've heard to date...and since these people know me so well, they know exactly what I need to hear and when...the funny advice, the serious advice, and the practical advice...I love it all and can't wait to scrapbook these and keep them forever. :)
Always remember...
...to give Josh grace and forgiveness. Babies magnify the love AND the stresses of your marriage. Be on the same team and support each other, even at 3am and after multiple diaper/clothes changes and Maverick will be blessed.
When the going gets tough...
...call Nikki and Kate...we'll bring smotherella sticks and rum (for Josh)
When the going gets tough...
...as you get up MULTIPLE times a night in those first few weeks...months...REMEMBER it is only a very short and very limited time. You WILL sleep all night again. But you will NOT have two precious, grateful completely dependent eyes looking up at your in those hours of the night on a regular basis again. Cherish those hours - don't dread them. Praise God for the baby he has given you the opportunity to get up with (it took me a few babies to realize this).
Always remember...
...the LOVE God has for you and your family. And the love you have for EACH OTHER!
God + Nothing = Everything!
My wish for sweet baby...
...is that he can have wonderful babysitters, such as Ellyn Carson and Alyssa Duvick.
When the going gets tough...
...just remember all the terrible dates I've been on.
***DIED LAUGHING AT THIS ONE***
Always remember...
...youu are his mother and you know what is best for your child. When baby sleeps, mommy should really rest too. The dishes and laundry can wait. Make sure to take care of yourself in order to be the best mom you can be - put your needs first at times (it's not being selfish). Keep your relationship with Josh strong, keep your communication open. There will be many changes ahead - some hard to deal with, but as long as your bond stays strong with Josh, you will be just fine! Don't forget to keep up with date nights as well, good for mommy and daddy and baby! I'm so happy for you guys! Your strong love for each other and your amazing faith in God is something I look up to you guys for. Your future is so bright and glittery!"
My wish for sweet baby...
...is that he remembers how awesome his parents are, even if mom tries to sneak some glitter in his lotion!
When the going gets tough...
...call your mom or Jamie or a friend to come help you. Seriously! I've learned that as a mom you don't have to have it all together all the time (or at all).
Words of advice...
Always sleep when he sleeps. You can't be super mom when mom is a zombie. Baby will cry, throw up, not sleep...things will get better! Remember how much of a blessing he is and you will be an amazing mom.
When the going gets tough...
Take a few hours for yourself and get a pedicure, a Venti drink from Starbucks, and wander the aisles fo Target. I find this is the best way to calm down and help put things in perspective. So excited to watch you grow as a mother! And if things do get rough, always know I'm here for whatever you need (as a babysitter or Target companion)!
Always remember...
...glitter and grass are God's goodness and grace. What a gift to become "mommy and daddy." Praying that you will seek God's face and rely on Him during the good times AND the bad. It's been a joy and privilege to get to know you this past year and it will be even more so as we welcome baby Maverick into small group.
When the going gets tough...
...just wing it (or Google it) and know you're an AWESOME mom!
Words of advice...
...(I know you don't want lots of 'advice' but here's my two cents)...Take vacations and trips at least twice a year. Once with Maverick and once WITHOUT. You love and cherish the memories from both!
Always remember...
...you and Josh were here first. I'm reminded of this all the time...God started this family of yours with you and Josh and now is building your family with Maverick - He is entrusting you and Josh as parents to lead Mav to Jesus just as you and Josh encourage each other and push each other to Jesus...you will be working together to lead your son. Remember where you started and continue to build off of that. As you have this excitement and new unbelieveable love for your 'little man' remember the man who is by your side and the love for him. This might not make sense now, but I can't wait for you to experience this love...we can chat more. :) The love for Jesus, Josh, and your new little man is the most amazing feeling a wife and now mommy can have!
Words of advice...
...Dear Mollie, Sometimes babies cry a lot and you might feel like it's your motherly duty to figure out why baby s crying. There really might not be anything you can do to stop it - so put Maverick in his crib and go take a shower. He'll probably be asleep when you're done. Also...love Jesus. Love Josh. Call your mom.
***ONE OF MY FAVORITES***
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| I've had too much fun'playing' with all this baby stuff this week. |
MmB
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